This mirror was so powerful it makes a single pore look like the Mariana Trench.They even know his full name: Aidan Gregory Stiviletto..But you marry into the military, so you get used to it," she said.She thinks that employers may be reluctant to hire her because her husband will likely get orders to move again within a couple of years."I am nervous to tell people that I am a military spouse, because then people know that you not going to be there very long," she said.Pitts, who is a banker, said military spouses have told him that it hard for them to build their careers because the frequent moves set them back."They are not in one place long enough to build seniority, so typically they have to start at the bottom of the pay scale," he said.Sharon Edwards, Army Community Services employment readiness team leader at Fort Campbell, Ky., said her office helps spouses find jobs, gives assistance on writing resumes and provides tips on how to best qualify for avail